DESOLATION in conflict zones, another DESOLATION in the insolated, dictated suburbs
There are the people who make up a society, a country. And there is a government body, some system of organization, however precarious or strict. Most people just want to live their lives in relative peace and an extent of freedoms: Movement, association, speech. Privacy and room for something sacred to themselves. It is when these possibilities are disrupted, taken away, or simply never present that people become more desparate for their expression of frustration and/or lack of freedoms and privacy and peace. Desparation for entire swathes of people can be seen in their violence or striking out for attention, help, to relieve themselves of the intense stress and strain of a policed, limited, censored lifestyle or slavery or living under violence with limited movement and lack of security of ANYthing.
People are very resilient, patient, can put up with a lot of stress and trouble. People can resist the urge for striking out, for attacking what is tormenting them; whatever they perceive to be tormenting them.
Violence can then function like a mechanism for fraternity. This means that, through collective violent acts and an immerging realization of those with similar frustration and desparation are publically or on some scale revealing their frustration, can bring a group together. When no other inspiration is available, when every other avenue appears to be closed off or destroyed, when there is nothing left to do but die, human beings still search for their „kind“, those that share their feelings.
Levels of comfort and well-being influence, of course, the extent of violence or destruction that can result from desparation of groups of people. Americans, for example, generally have a certain level of living that provides food and shelter. Unfortunately, many American communities, particularly newly-built cities and suburbs, lack public space and areas for people to meet and see eachother. This lack of social contact between groups (lack of spontaneous meetings, unplanned connection) and, I argue, contribute to a lack of essential human contact between people of different income levels, backgrounds, and additionally contributes to a sense of not having the ability to contact others, a desparation for human contact. So, I say, there is a desolation not far from the American mind, my American upbringing. Desolation of another kind exists in conflict or war zones. Desolation is also the strip-malls, the long, wide parkways, all drivers trapped in their own cars, communicating with only their horns and driving actions. (This was not meant to be about me, but this is what I know. ) One’s own perceived „land of the free“ is another’s desolation.
**Many American cities have old centers and newer suburbs. Many city centers are not inhabited, but are places of work and office buildings, places of business. In Memphis, where I come from, the term „white flight“ came into the vocabulary since the 80’s to describe the white population in the city moving to the ever-expanding suburbs due to a perception of increased crime and lack of safety. In these suburbs, people do not walk places; they must drive. The cities and suburbs, for the most part, are built for cars and not humans.
**I have this feeling in Germany. When I feel sealed off at home, or anywhere, even running (in my trance), I do crave a feeling of togetherness or simply being/mulling around with people in the city center. I go and sit down and people are moving around me. There is nothing like this feeling of just being around others; you do not have to talk to them, sit with them, know them. Just to have them there, you know you are a human like them. In Memphis (dare I extend this tot he rest oft he country) there are malls, indoors, and sports events.
Perhaps I could call this the „Red State condition“.